The Comforting Mum

This past week has taken a toll on me—mentally, emotionally, and physically. Not because of one specific event, but rather the slow and steady build-up of many. I’ve felt stretched in every direction. My energy has been running on reserve, and even that reserve is starting to feel like it’s gone dry.

I haven’t been as consistent as I’d like to be—here on the blog or even in daily life. It’s not for lack of trying. It’s just that when you’re pouring everything you have into your children, sometimes there’s nothing left for anything else. I’ve forgotten school events, missed packed lunches (more than once), and fallen behind on laundry. I’m in survival mode—doing what I can with what little I have, hoping it’s enough.

And then, in the midst of all the chaos, my daughter turned 8.

I wanted to give her the world—but all I had were my hands, my time, and my heart. So I blew up balloons, hung up decorations, and baked her favourite cake myself. And let me tell you, I am no baker. But somehow, I managed to shape it into the number 8—and her face lit up like I’d made her a five-tiered masterpiece. We sang, we laughed, and she ate every bite of that cake like it came from the finest bakery.

We ended the day with her favourite dinner, and for a moment, I breathed. I still wrestled with the guilt, though. While her father took her and her sister on a magical trip to Spain, I was here counting coins and stretching ingredients. I couldn’t give her a holiday, a new outfit, or a wrapped gift—but I gave her all of me.

And you know what? That was enough for her.

It’s hard not to compare. To feel like you’re falling short when someone else can offer more. But I’m reminded that while they may remember grand trips, it’s the love—the presence—the intentionality they’ll carry with them for life. And on days when I question if I’m doing enough, I try to remember that love shows up, even when money can’t.

✨Reflection

Have you ever felt like what you gave wasn’t enough? Like your love had to compete with someone else’s resources? I’d love to hear from you in the comments. How have you celebrated your children in meaningful ways, even when times were tough? Let’s encourage each other.

🌸 Affirmation

Even when I have little, my love is abundant. And that love is more than enough.

Signed,

The Comforting Mum