Finding grace in the little things—even when it’s hard
I know I’ve been quiet on here this week. Truthfully, my mind has been heavy, and my body hasn’t had the energy to keep up. Sleep has been hard to come by again. No matter how early I’m in bed, I lie there watching the hours pass—until I have just four left before the alarm goes off. I often catch myself hoping their father will text and offer to help with the school run, just once… just so I can breathe. But that phone call never comes.
And now, the school year is nearly over. Just a few more weeks until summer—and I’m already feeling the pressure mount. What are we supposed to do for six and a half weeks, in a shelter, with no outdoor space and no structure? I’ve asked their dad if he could step in a bit more, and it went exactly how I expected—no additional support.
But I’m trying to be proactive. That’s where my internet sleuthing comes in handy! I’ve been searching for outdoor, low-cost activities to keep us busy this summer—picnics in the park, splash pad visits, outdoor movie nights if we can find one. I’ve even started a summer activity planner to help us make the most of the days, even when they feel heavy.
And today was hair day. My daughters will be spending the weekend with their father to celebrate my oldest’s birthday. No one loves to look cute and party more than my girls, so you know their hair had to be done before they left. Add nails, the perfect dress, matching shoes—and suddenly it’s a full production. Which also means an expensive trip to the hair shop, straight out of my dwindling pennies, and a full evening of me standing on tired feet, bad knees and an aching back, parting and braiding until I can barely move. But when I see their smiles, it’s worth every pain. Every single time.
Some days I feel like I’m running on empty. But when I look at my daughters—full of joy, light, and laughter—I know that somehow, I’m still pouring something good into them. Maybe not perfectly. Maybe not with ease. But with love. Always with love.
🌿 Reflection
Have you ever had to choose between your needs and doing what’s best for your kids? I’d love to hear how you get through those moments. Drop a comment below and let’s support each other through it.
✨ Affirmation
Even when I am tired and stretched thin, I still find a way to show up with love. That is the kind of mother I am—and that is more than enough.
Signed,
The Comforting Mum 🤎
The Comforting Mum 
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